I’m 24 F and I’m having trouble with penetrative sex (PS). I have a partner and his penis is quite long and girthy for an asian. He is not my first body count. I’ve had partners in the past and we also did PS but it didn’t happen quite often. Now, i feel really disappointed with myself because I can’t pleasure my partner through PS. The first time we did it, he was only able to insert the tip. After that, I bought a dildo that is very much similar to his penis in terms of length and girth so I can at least make myself “loose”. I can finally insert up to 3 inches but that’s it. I can’t get past beyond that and when I try to insert it deeper, it’s like there’s a wall that’s blocking his penis. It doesn’t hurt.
I really want to pleasure him. He keeps telling me that it’s okay and he’s been very patient about it but I just feel disappointed with myself and as a partner. I feel like I’m a failure.
Is it time to consult a professional?
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