Hello! This is probably tmi so I’m posting on a spare account.
I (18f) have recently been doing things with my boyfriend (18m). We haven’t done any actual penetrative sex yet, just hands and mouths.
Regarding my first question, things were going like normal and then he commented that I tasted differently than I normally do. I chalked that up to just being because I’m ovulating, whatever. Then when he inserted his fingers he stopped because he said he could feel something he hadn’t ever felt before. He said it was “hard, like a solid object,” and it was, “at the end of where I can reach and it wasn’t there before, at least not that I can remember.”
I’m still fairly young and new to having sex and being in sexual scenarios, so I don’t really know what’s going on but I’m trying to not freak myself out.
Is it just my cervix? Is it something swelling because I’m ovulating? Is it something worth getting looked at?
Secondly, since I’m (again) very new to this I don’t know if this is normal or if it’s an issue. From the first time we tried fingering, every single time it has ended up with me bleeding to some degree. Sometimes it looks like old blood that might have just been stuck (I guess?) or it’s right at the tail end of my period so it makes sense. Other times it’s definitely fresh blood and the amount varies too, sometimes quite a bit sometimes only a tiny amount. I’m not in any pain during or after so I don’t know what could really be causing it. We’ve tried being more gentle, using more lube, waiting longer between sessions, etc.
Nothing we’ve done has changed anything so far and it’s starting to worry me. It’s not because of the amount of blood or anything, it’s just because I don’t understand why I’m bleeding every time we do things and I just want it to stop. I don’t have any medical conditions that could cause it as far as I’m aware either.
Does anyone know what might be causing it? How can I stop it from happening? Is this normal? Should I go get seen for it?
Thank you to anyone who responds, I don’t really know who to talk to about this in real life so any advice would be amazing:)
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