me and my boyfriend (F18) and (M30) have been seeing each other for around 8 months now. and ive had constant recurring UTI'S and now have recently just been diagnosed with BV (bacterial vagnosis) and im so scared for so manh reasons, im scared that our bodies and microbes are jyst not compatible and its never going to work, hes the first man ive ever been with sexually and physically. im also terrified the BV isnt going to go away. ive heard more people say they have it constantly after so many rounds of antibiotics and im terrified its never going to go away. and yea, i know we have an age gap relationship and yes im aware its concerning, ive heard it all, and i dont need any more please) and i dont know if this has been a problem with his previous relationships. i dont mention these things to him anymore because im scared he'll think its me, i never even had a UTI prior to having sex. please give me some tips. im so scared im going to have to leave him, i love him so much but the constant antibiotics making me ill and the pain from the utis is mentally taking a toll on me
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