I 18, have been raised very religious my whole life. And taught values accordingly, I lost my vCard unmarried to my now boyfriend, him and I have remain active for about 7 months with time in between because I travel. I’m in a position now of realizing ok the intimacy with a relationship is not something I’m right now willing to pray away. However I’ve also been taught about the negatives of birth control. I have taken a couple plan bs this year when sex happend sketchy times with my cycle, experimented with spermicides ( which gave us both irritation ) I feel like the hormones completely threw me off in the plan b, So I don’t know if the pill is necessarily the best option for me. Also, I can’t speak with a doctor about this because my doctor just so happens to be in my church, so I’m left with limited resources. Anything would have to be ordered online. I should also mention, I’m mostly worried about pre cum because he is diligent about pulling out, condoms are also off the table. I need a big sisters advice :)
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