Honest question plus rant incoming:
It feels like I don’t want sex at all but I still masterbate pretty much weekly. When it comes to sex though I don’t want it at all and am starting to be repulsed by the idea!
I love my partner (28M) but he also has a low sex drive. I use to want to do it with him all the time and after our honeymoon phase ended about two months into the relationship so did the intimacy. We use to do it multiple times a day, then drastically it changed to twice a month.
I have experienced this before with a ex partner so I guess I have gotten use to this but my sex drive is completely dead, I have no desire to get naked and nasty unless I pleasure myself when I am ovulating then I feel like it but I still don’t act on it.
He’s happy with twice a month, to be honest I’m not. Now when he wants it I have rejected him just because I don’t feel like it. He hasn’t complained, of course he wouldn’t.
Ladies have you had experience with this? Is it just this relationship that has me like this or is there something that should change? I’m honestly not happy with it but I’ve cried to him about it and begged him to see a doctor he won’t. Now I just don’t care. I feel like I lost apart of myself and I’m worried I will be like this forever.
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